A couple of weeks ago I told the Bible study group I'm in that I've been dealing with clinical depression and asked them to pray for me. The response was awkward and caring. This morning I bumped into a woman from that group and she pulled me aside and whispered that she also suffers from depression. She told me that she's on medication. Or, no, she didn't tell me -- she mouthed it without sound.
A few other women I know have "confessed" to depression, or told me that someone close to them deals with depression.
I definitely understand the inclination to guard privacy related to mental health, but this seems counter-productive.
Just so you know, I'm also a Pastors Wife and I take anti-depressants. I have a long family history of depression, so I cannot afford to let the matter go unattended. I think it is wonderful that you have been open and honest about this topic! Way to Go!
ReplyDeleteI know just how you feel. When I announced to our congregation (previous) my struggle with depression I though it would help. I think it was a bad decision. This doesnt' encourage you, I know. But I'm with you. I feel like a leper.
ReplyDeleteThank you both for writing. Anonymous, I am so sorry that your congregation did not support you. It sounds like you have moved on from there. God be with you.
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